Comments on: Is it Adultery? Maybe. Or Maybe Not.

By: Andrea Graham

Andrea Graham — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 14:04:28 +0000

If you have solid proof of inappropriate behavior, you need to prayerfully confront him with it. Prayerfully because you need to remain calm for any benefit to come from the conversation and that is hard to do on your own. Any time something like this happens, you should also seek professional marriage counseling; at minimum seek guidance from your local pastor.

By: vanessa

vanessa — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 06:16:20 +0000

i just found out my husband is talking to a other women and the things i don’t know if he done any thing with her all i have is text messageing and phone calls from may15,2008 through june22,2008 when i found what can i do about this

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By: Andrea Graham

Andrea Graham — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 18:00:51 +0000

I understand, I’ve just answered one too many letters begging for help with a porn addiction, if you know what I mean.

Sometimes the activities have a way of crowding you out. We often come to a point where priorities must be reevaluated. Our spouse has a way of sliding down the list when we’re not looking.

By: Debbie

Debbie — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 17:42:58 +0000

When the site was first created, I was under the impression that it would be written from a ‘moral, religious, etc.’ standpoint. But I’ve seen some of the later article, and yes the photo, which is not something I would post at Right Truth. I only posted 2 articles when the site opened, and have not posted any more. I’m in a wait and see mode. I’ll wait and see which direction the writing takes.

Yep, my hubby comes home, but is then involved in his many hobbies. The band, computers, ham radio, and many more. I’m involved in some of those also. There can be such a thing as ‘too much time together’. ha

Thanks for your response. Have a wonderful day.

By: Andrea Graham

Andrea Graham — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 17:38:11 +0000

I feel quite blessed by my husband as well. He comes home after work and goes straight to work on his blog/podcast, but hey, he comes home! And, though he still does the male stuffing thing from time to time, that he’s as willing as he is to talk about troubles is a godsend. It’s a whole lot harder when the husband and wife both require mind reading (though men are not as susceptible to expecting it.)

Thanks for the referral, I’m honored. I’m afraid the Lohan picture posted at Ox â€¦After Dark is a problem for this site. Some of my target audience struggles with porn addiction and the skimpy bathing suit she’s wearing in that pic is close enough to be a stumbling block for them, so I’d rather not have a link to it here.

By: Debbie

Debbie — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 01:49:23 +0000

Nice article. I am very lucky. I have a husband who comes straight home every day. If he needs to talk, he talks to me. We think alike on most things, but when we disagree, we talk it out.

But it takes work. Good marriages don't just happen.

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